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By: Rozlynn Worrall, Volunteer Coordinator, FFI Photography Club Clusters, Member of FF Sacramento, California, USA
Are you interested in photography? Would you like to learn and practice your skills with other Friendship Force members and take stunning, story-telling, and newsworthy photographs? Most of all, do you love Friendship Force and want to grow the Friendship Force membership by showing the rest of the world what we do and how we work to create peace through friendship.
Start or join an FFI Photography Club Cluster (FFIPhotoCC). FFIPhotoCC offers free online photography programs, resource links, and calendar reminders for FFI Photography Club Cluster members. For more information, take a look at “Develop a Photo Cluster with a Purpose in your Club” on the Member Resources page
Two programs available through FFIPhotoCC are the “Monthly FOCUS (MF)” and the “Quarterly CHALLENGE (QC).” Monthly Focuses build readiness skills each month through learning and practice. Quarterly Challenges challenge photographers of all skill levels each quarter to apply those skills to a Friendship-Force-related theme. You can view all of the 2019 Monthly FOCUS themes on the FFIPhotoCC Share Site.
Four Quarterly CHALLENGES provide FFIPhotoCC photographers an ongoing opportunity throughout the year to capture the essence of Friendship Force in their photographs. These Challenges are more abstract and more difficult to capture than the Monthly FOCUS themes. These are more than candid shots. Taking Quarterly Challenge photos takes pre-planning and may need involvement of other club members to produce the backdrop for the photographic and “newsworthy” opportunity to happen.
Planning and producing photographic opportunities during a Journey is a unique way to demonstrate an insider’s experience of what building peace through friendship really looks like. You can show faces and experiences beyond the banners, hugs, group photos, and dinner table toasts. Another way to find an opportunity for excellent photos is to attend or participate in larger community events. These may not only bring together diverse ethnicities, age groups, and genders for rich image backgrounds and subjects, but also may attract local news agencies and potential new members.
The Quarterly Challenges for 2019 are:
QC1: “Faces not Places”
QC2: “Acts of Kindness”
QC3: “Shared Experience”
QC4: “Service to Others”
When three people from the same club express an interest in FFIPhotoCC and sign up, those three members will receive an invitation to join the FFIPhotoCC Share Site on Shutterfly, where cluster organizers will find ideas, resources, and specific albums to upload and share their cluster’s 3-5 best photos in each category.
Beginners through expert photographers with a camera phone, tablet, automatic preset camera, or Digital Single Lens Reflex Camera (DSLR) are welcome whatever their skill level. The only requirement is that members are motivated to become better photographers, not only for personal use, but also as FFI volunteer photographers who can capture the essence of Friendship Force to share with the world.
The FFIPhotoCC Share Site is up and running. A comprehensive program with resources is ready. What’s missing now are more clubs to participate!
Last year, 61 individuals from around the world expressed an interest in FFI Photography Club Clusters, resulting in six FFI Photography Club Clusters that have been issued invitations to the FFIPhotoCC Shutterfly Share Site. Four more clusters need just one member to become a cluster, and single members of five clubs are interested. Are you interested?
Clusters start by simply signing up – we hope you will join us in 2019!
Editor’s Note: The Friendship Force Planning Team wants to share the information below to give more insight into the 2020 Matching Process.
The chart below contains data collected during the 2020 Matching Process. This information shows the total number of clubs in each country, how many weeks those clubs agreed to host, and how many first-preference requests each country had for 2020. If a country is not listed in the chart, it means that the clubs in that country did not agree to host in 2020.
As a reminder, the Matching Process has been conducted somewhat differently this year. You can review the changes in detail at this blog post from July 2018. In the interest of fairness, clubs that have been hosted in Europe in the past three years were not allocated a Journey to Europe in 2020.
If your club was not allocated a Journey in 2020, you can contact your FFI Regional Support Manager to find out which clubs are still available to host.
Please feel free to contact us at [email protected] if you have any other questions!
Most Friendship Force Journeys have a few leaders involved as Journey Coordinators, but for these Featured Journeys of the Quarter, all participants were either experienced or aspiring leaders! In October 2018, successful Leadership Training Conferences and Seminars were held in Cottbus, Germany and Lincoln, Nebraska, USA.
European Leadership Seminar
In Germany, 11 participants from 9 different clubs in 5 different countries (Germany, Belgium, U.K., Russia, and France) gathered to develop their leadership skills and understand different forms of club organization and Journeys. They also sought to establish a network of both future and experienced leaders throughout Europe.
Over the two-and-a-half-days of this Global Journey, participants learned from seasoned European club leaders in workshops and presentations covering membership and club development, structure and leadership, and general FFI practices. The small group size allowed for many learning opportunities, including helpful discussions and exchanges on different Friendship Force club experiences. As one participant said, “I am glad to get a new network for exchanging questions and experiences.”
Thank you to the presenters of a most interesting and helpful seminar and to the people from Cottbus for great hospitality – European Leadership Seminar Participant
FF Cottbus generously provided home-hosting over the long weekend, including an excursion to local attraction, Spreewald, a forested area and wetland reserve. Many thanks to members of the organizing committee for their work in organizing this successful seminar, including Kurt Häfeli (Switzerland), Loes Epping, (Netherlands), Dany Vanderbroeck, (Belgium), Eberhard Wauer, (Germany), and Kerstin Hogan, (Regional Support Manager, FFI). The European Action Group is planning another seminar in upcoming years with the same format, and a special effort will be made to include participants from developing or new clubs.
As one participant commented, “I think this meeting was a great success… We are all in close contact because we have had such a relatively small group, but that is the [strength]: we will remind each other and are friends… that is the essence of Friendship Force!”
Lincoln Leadership Training Conference
Around the same time as the seminar in Cottbus was taking place, members of FF Lincoln and FF Omaha also hosted their own Leadership Training Conference in Lincoln, Nebraska. The 8 participants of the training hailed from Tanzania, Russia, the Philippines, Canada, and Texas and Wisconsin in the U.S.. Members from FF Omaha kindly provided home-hosting before the conference, while the training took place in Lincoln. Lincoln club members led most of the training in a conversational style, with assistance from long-time member of FF Greater Milwaukee and Board Alumnus Dave Kalan. Participants and leaders engaged in training each morning through lunchtime, and then enjoyed activities, time for socializing, and shared meals in the evenings.
According to Dale Moore, U.S. Field Representative of the Midwest Region, “The participants were wonderful people who truly appreciated the opportunity to attend the training sessions.” He commended FF Lincoln for involving so many people in the training, while also making it both fun and interesting. He also commented on one leader specifically, saying, “Dave Kalan is amazing, as he seems tireless and always willing to share ideas and give of his time.”
Thank you to Friendship Force of Lincoln and Friendship Force of Omaha, especially the presenters, and all of the leadership training participants for helping to grow and lead the future of Friendship Force!
Question: What successful club event served as both a membership drive and fundraiser, garnering the club Featured Club of the Quarter?
Answer: Friendship Force of Mount Barker’s Quiz Night!
Our Featured Club of the Quarter is FF Mount Barker, for their innovative efforts to attract new recruits, connect with fellow club members, and raise $1200 AUD (approximately $816 USD) which was contributed to FFI’s Annual Fund! On August 18th, the club hosted almost 100 people – members from both their club and nearby Australian clubs like FF Adelaide, along with non-member friends – for a rousing evening of facts, fun, and friends.
FF Mount Barker Publicity Officer Jan Luck served as Quiz Master for the night, with setup, break-down, and planning support from President Jan de Weerd, the club’s social committee, and other members and friends. Prizes were donated by local businesses and club members, who also supplied beverages for the evening. “Great effort everyone who was involved, including those members who came along just to enjoy the night and brought friends,” said Jan Luck.
“Everyone had a good social night out and there were many non FF members there who got to hear about Friendship Force. So as well as it being a very successful fundraiser, it was a good PR exercise for the club,” said President Jan de Weerd.
In a thank you letter to the organizers of the event, FFI Board Member and FF Adelaide member Bobbie Mulholland wrote:
I am very impressed that your club took up the challenge to serve FFI in this way – it serves to remind clubs, everywhere that helping our great organisation is as easy as to have a night of fun with fellow members and friends. Imagine the benefit if all clubs tried to do the same.
With the clear success of the evening, FF Mount Barker hopes to make this a recurring event. “A lot of preparation had gone into the evening and prior to it, but the amount of money raised, the obvious enjoyment of people, and the buzz on the night absolutely made it all worthwhile,” said Jan Luck.
We do hope this will be an annual event and one undertaken by other clubs around the world! Congratulations again to FF Mt. Barker and all involved!
Try your hand at answering some of the quiz questions of the night:
Q: The soundtrack of which 1967 film includes the Simon and Garfunkel hit “Mrs. Robinson”?
A: The Graduate
Q: Who last century led an expedition northward from Melbourne to the Gulf of Carpentaria?
A: Robert O’Hara Bourke
2018 brought Friendship Force two more honored recipients of the Wayne Smith Medal. This award was created in 2011 as a tribute to the memory of Friendship Force founder Wayne Smith, whose boundless energy and optimism and untiring commitment to the cause of world friendship made this organization the global force for good that it is today. Recipients of the medal are those who advance our organization’s values of mutual respect, cultural diversity, and humanitarian service. In 2018, we were lucky enough to honor our 100th recipient of the award!
The two members who joined the distinguished group of exemplary leaders around the world in 2018 are Marj Stanton of Friendship Force Bundaberg, Australia, and Donna Baldwin-Haut of Friendship Force Greater Milwaukee, USA. These women are today’s leaders who make it possible to maintain Wayne Smith’s vision of promoting understanding across the barriers that separate people.
Marj Stanton has been a member of the Bundaberg Friendship Force Club for over 24 years. She has participated in many domestic and international Journeys during her time with Friendship Force, and has attended almost every National Conference in Australia. Widely known and respected in the Australian Friendship Force community, Marj has held the office of Merchandise Officer for many years, while also lending her home for day hosting, dinner hosting, and numerous club functions. “Through her loving caring nature she epitomises the ideals, goals and vision of Friendship Force,” according to club president of FF Bundaberg, Don McKewen.
The 100th Recipient of the Wayne Smith Medal is Donna Baldwin-Haut of Friendship Force of Greater Milwaukee, as nominated by the board of her club for her twelve years of outstanding leadership. Donna has helmed fundraising and strategic planning projects for her club, along with helping to organize their 20th Anniversary Gala Celebration. She has also served as President in 2011 and 2012 and Journey Coordinator on several outbound and inbound Journeys.
Donna has been a strong proponent of building service projects into FF Greater Milwaukee’s inbound Journeys, and has also facilitated extensive leadership training for leaders of new and developing clubs. According to the FF Greater Milwaukee Board, “Donna is eminently qualified to be a recipient of this award with the dedication she has shown in word and deed towards promoting world peace through advancing the organization’s values of mutual respect, cultural diversity, and humanitarian service.”
Donna, herself, said she is “humbled beyond words” to be receiving the award. “To be counted among the outstanding FFI leaders around the world is indeed an honor that touches me deep within my heart. I am most grateful to the Friendship Force of Greater Milwaukee for this honor,” Donna said. She continued:
Friendship Force has given me the amazing opportunity to experience the warmth of friendships throughout the world and the joy of learning about diverse cultures and amazing places along the way. I believe deeply in the mission of Friendship Force and feel that it is my duty to return my service to the organization for all that it has given to me and the people of the world through promoting peace, understanding, and humanitarian service.
Each nomination of the Wayne Smith Medal is accompanied by a donation of US $500 to the Friendship Force Legacy Fund, given by the presenting club(s) in honor of the recipient. The donation and others like it help advance the work of FFI by expanding its global reach. The medal may recognize exceptional leadership from within the club, or it may be presented to those in the broader community whose lives reflect the Friendship Force mission.
In 1981, at the 5th World Conference in Newcastle upon Tyne, England, a special award was introduced as a way to honor two volunteer leaders each year who demonstrated exemplary dedication and loyalty to Friendship Force and its goals. Later, in 1987, at the 11th World Conference in Richmond, Virginia, USA, awards to recognize the support provided by our network of clubs around the world were given for the first time.
Over the years, we added on different award categories which allowed us to recognize more of our members and clubs but they ended up complicating the process. There were also times when we lacked nominees for some of the award categories. Both of these issues are why we decided to get back to the basics and simplify the awards process.
We want to make sure that our members and clubs are recognized for their outstanding service to the mission of Friendship Force on a regular basis. To help do this, we’ve instituted new award categories, which are:
Club of the Year by Region
Volunteer of the Year by Region
Regions are defined as: Asia, Europe/Eurasia, Latin America/Caribbean, Mid-East/Africa, North America-Canada, North America-USA, and South Pacific.
For the 2019 FFI Awards Process, winners will be selected by region using the selection criteria. From those regional winners, overall winners will be chosen. This process begins in November, when all members receive the online Call for Nominations form from FFI Headquarters. The deadline to submit the form to FFI is January 15. By February 15, Regional Winners will be determined by the established selection committees as defined below and they will be recognized in March. The regional winners will then be considered for the Outstanding Club and Volunteer of the Year, which will be recognized at the 2019 World Conference in Boulder, Colorado, in July.
- Regional Selection Committee: A team of FFI staff, Field Representatives, and other regional leaders will create regional selection committees based on regional leadership. These committees will review the nominations and select winners in their regions using the selection criteria. Current Field Representatives, and other key leaders will serve on these initial regional committees.
- International Selection Committee: A team of FFI staff, Field Representatives, and other key volunteer leaders from around the world will then select the outstanding recipients from among those regional winners.
- For clubs: Over the past two years, this club will have shown exemplary work across a broad spectrum of activities (such as innovative programming, club revitalization, marketing and public relations, etc.) that resulted in membership growth and diversity, successful Journeys, outreach to home and visiting communities, and visibility of FFI activities.
- For volunteers: Over the past two years, this member will have shown exemplary work across a broad spectrum of activities (such as innovative programming, club revitalization, marketing and public relations, etc.) that resulted in membership growth and diversity, successful Journeys, outreach to home and visiting communities, and visibility of FFI activities.
In addition to the awards already outlined, the Call for Nominations form also includes an opportunity to nominate a Friendship Force Member for the FFI Lifetime Achievement Award. This nominee should be someone who has supported Friendship Force in a variety of ways over the years, both within and outside their club’s activities. Whether through direct support of Journeys, exceptional club leadership, or embodiment of the Friendship Force mission in their everyday lives.
Moving forward, we encourage all of our regions around the world to recognize those valuable contributions of clubs and members at both the local level and also at regional meetings and national conferences. Our hope is that the changes indicated here will result in an improved, more inclusive volunteer recognition process for 2019 and beyond.
In addition to the online nomination form, if you have other materials to provide as supporting evidence for your nomination(s), please submit them to [email protected]. Feel free to contact us at that same email address with any questions or concerns.
Thank you for all that you do for your club and Friendship Force as a whole! We appreciate your participation in furthering our mission.
I remember reading once that “change is inevitable, but that doesn’t mean it’s easy!” As individuals living in a constantly changing world, we know all too well how true that statement is. Certainly for Friendship Force the difficulty of change is experienced most when staff move on or we add new people to our small international team.
These past few weeks, FFI has faced staff changes that leave us happy for those moving on and excited about new growth within the organization. In early October, Matthew Nidek, formerly Director of Finance and Operations, took on an exciting new leadership role with a local nonprofit organization in New York City. He had been preparing for just this kind of opportunity, and FFI is indebted to him for his 7 years of service to our mission.
Friendship Force also bid farewell to Elena McCarty as she made a full transition to much-deserved retirement. FFI was lucky to be able to keep Elena part-time this past year as she started the process of retiring, and this month she made it official after 10 years with FFI.
Both Matthew and Elena were integral to our staff and making sure FFI headquarters ran smoothly. But like any rising stars, it is unrealistic to assume we could keep such amazing talent forever, even if it is hard to see them go. We congratulate Matthew on his promotion and Elena on her retirement!
With these kinds of changes also come opportunities, and I couldn’t be more pleased to announce the promotions of some fantastic staff at HQ who bring new energy, excitement, and creativity to our leadership team.
Long-time staff members, Allison Lindsey and Debbie Powell have taken on the roles of Directors of Program Operations. Allison, based in Atlanta, USA, is taking the lead with our staff in the western hemisphere while Debbie, based in England, is heading up the eastern hemisphere staff. With our new global team, each Director is overseeing half of the program staff and supporting each other in development projects.
Maryam Jordan is also being recognized for her years of service to FFI and wealth of experience as Senior Regional Support Manager. Tracy Harrell, formerly Controller for FFI, is now our new Director of Finance and she brings a wealth of knowledge and ideas to our evolving global financial infrastructure. We’ve also brought on a new Financial Assistant, Dana Jackson, to help with transaction processing.
These new directors and team members, along with our seasoned global staff, continue to push FFI toward a stronger future and we are incredibly grateful for each of them.
General inquiries to FFI can always be made directly by emailing [email protected], or feel free to reach out to any of our leadership team with questions, we are here to help!
Our hosts intentionally shared their culture, customs, homes and families with us and were so warm, welcoming, and involved that in spite of language barriers, we felt attached and grateful to them.
– FF Minnesota-Twin Cities Ambassador on a Journey to FF West Alajuela, Costa Rica
Dear Friendship Force Members,
Some of the best, most captivating, stories from Friendship Force members around the world are about ambassadors and hosts building friendships and understanding even when they didn’t share a common language.
For example, one ambassador from Virginia, USA on a Journey to Thailand commented, “I loved the family I stayed with [and] although the location was remote, it was wonderful – like Garden of Eden. Hosts were friendly, generous, and although there were language issues, we laughed, played games, and all learned new words and customs.”
I had my own first-hand experience being home-hosted by members who did not speak English during my second visit to Peru. Through hand gestures, broken English, and even more broken Spanish, we found a simple way to communicate. When we finally brought out our tablets and turned on a translation application, we realized even language barriers could not stand in the way of our budding friendship.
In the conversations that followed, we learned about each other through carefully chosen words, facial expressions, and elaborate hand gestures painting images of our stories in the air. In our short time together, we learned so much about each other’s families, experiences, and common zeal for the Friendship Force mission.
Other members have recognized that language differences are only a small inconvenience compared to the rewards of friendships not otherwise made. “Although we do not speak Spanish, language was not a barrier. Our hosts had some English as did their younger family members,” said two members from FF Calgary and Region, Canada. “We were in an area of Mexico that as tourists we would likely not travel if it were not for Friendship Force and our experience far exceeded our expectations.”
In a world riddled with divisions, we cannot let something as simple and basic as language be a reason not to strive for more connection. Through the miracles of new technology and on the shoulders of over 40 years of hosting and travel, there is no reason to shy away from an experience to meet new people who may not speak our language. In fact, we should embrace it!
“The only challenge for me was the language barrier, as most of us did not speak each other’s language,” said an ambassador from FF Minnesota-Twin Cities on a Journey to Costa Rica. “In spite of that, we communicated, used Google Translator, hand gestures, and others who could interpret.”
Some members have come up with incredibly inventive ways to connect, discovering an unexpected commonality. As an ambassador from San Diego, California to Brazil explained, “The highlight of my trip was communicating with a member of their club who did not speak English, I spoke no Portuguese. We communicated in Japanese – the language of our ancestors.”
As you plan your next Journey, take a moment to consider and prepare yourself for what might be a life changing experience that goes beyond words. Take it from an Australian ambassador to Japan:
Being able to stay with and be a part of these families lives was a great experience. Learning a small amount of their language and having conversations with them as they practiced their English was very enjoyable. We had conversations about our own lives and situations and I felt very rewarded from the experience. I feel certain that I will continue to converse and grow the friendship with some of the people I have met on this Journey.
Editor’s Note: Author of this guest post is Natalie Duggan, a public health writer, graphic designer, world traveler, and blogger based in Atlanta, Georgia. Her international travels have been greatly inspired by those of both sets of grandparents before her – who were all Friendship Force members! Read her story below!
As my Istanbul-bound plane taxied for takeoff, I looked down at the folded piece of paper in my hands. I’d spent the last five months planning a 15-day solo adventure across three continents and four countries. It was May 2018, and I was on my way to visit Turkey, Tunisia, Sicily, and Malta, essentially making a small circle in the Mediterranean Sea. As a former anthropology student, photography enthusiast and all-around extrovert, my main goal was to see how people lived their everyday lives. I wanted to go beyond the typical tourist experiences and get a real sense of local culture.
Along the way, I looked forward to taking in the architecture, food, natural beauty, and the surprising amount of history connecting the four nations.
What I couldn’t plan for was the almost perfect synchronization that my travels had with my grandparents’ first solo international journey in May 1985—exactly 33 years ago. The paper in my hands was their handwritten itinerary.
My mother’s parents, my maternal grandparents, Bob and Margie Highsmith of Atlanta, Georgia, began traveling internationally thanks to Friendship Force International in 1984. At 64 and 67, neither of my grandparents had ever left the United States, but their FF trip changed everything for them. Their itinerary took them through Scotland and the United Kingdom where they met their Newcastle, UK hosts, Beryl and Bernie. The four of them became international pen-pals and lifelong friends. Beryl and Bernie eventually came to Atlanta and were hosted by my grandparents. Their experience with FF gave them the confidence and inspiration to continue traveling throughout their retirement years. One year after returning from their FF adventure, they planned another trip across Europe in 1985 for just the two of them. Their solo journey took place on same trip dates that I’d also unknowingly chosen for my recent adventure!
Growing up, I was fortunate enough to have not one set of Friendship Force-participating grandparents, but two! My father’s parents, Bob and Kathleen Duggan of Atlanta, Georgia, participated on the first Friendship Force Exchange to Newcastle, UK in 1975. In total, they participated in four FF exchanges and five hostings, including a trip around the world across Russia & Siberia in July 1997. My grandfather was an avid linguist, speaking approximately 13 languages. Paired up with my grandmother, the two of them sought to bridge cultural divides through conversation, travel, and hosting international guests in their home.
When I think about what largely inspired my last trip, it was easily my two sets of traveling grandparents. Each of them embodied the Friendship Force mission of promoting understanding across the barriers that separate people. Thanks to their influence and their stories over the course of my life, I have understood the world to be a very large place. However, through cultural understanding, travel and diplomacy, they taught me that many corners of this large world are entirely within reach.
On my May 2018 adventure through Turkey, Tunisia, Sicily, and Malta, I wanted to honor the curious spirits of my grandparents. I entered these countries with no existing friendships, but left each one with special memories and lasting contacts. I stayed in Airbnbs, often in people’s houses. In Tunisia, my hosts invited me to Iftar dinner during Ramadan each night. In Sicily, my hosts were concerned about me carrying a suitcase down the five-story staircase. They tied a climbing rope around my bag and hoisted it over the railing, where it landed gently the open courtyard below. Through my travel experiences, I learned that diplomacy is as simple as a cup of tea, a French lesson, or a handshake. These simple gestures meant everything.
Not a day goes by that I don’t think about the people I met – the Ukrainian priest on his way to provide aid to children in Libya, the British ex-pat who rebuilt her life in Malta after a terrible divorce, the Tunisian brothers who operated the beautiful roadside fruit stand, the Australian couple who decided to spend five months exploring the continent of Europe, the Gambian refugee who resettled in Sicily, and the list goes on.
Next month, in October 2018, I will be re-tracing part of my Highsmith grandparents’ European itinerary from 1985. I hope to re-create some of photos they took on their journey, visit some of the same places as they did, and see many new ones. Before my grandfather Bob Highsmith passed away in 2004, he wrote a journal full of advice for me in my later years, which he knew he might not get to see. One particular passage he wrote has always stood out to me:
Dream what you want to dream, go where you want to go, be what you want to be, because you only have one life and one chance to do what you want to do.
When my plane takes off in October, I will look forward to living out his words and honoring my grandparents’ legacy in an entirely new country.
Born and raised in Frederick, Maryland, Natalie Duggan has called Atlanta, Georgia home for the last seven years. An Emory University alumna with a dual degrees in Anthropology and Journalism, she is a public health writer and graphic designer by day and international trip planner/dreamer by night. On any given day, you can find Natalie spending time with friends in the city, cooking up a storm, or sitting on the porch with her cat, Finney. Her next trip is October 2018. You can follow NatGoesGlobal, her travel Instagram, at instagram.com/natgoesglobal and her blog at natgoesglobal.com.
Editor’s Note: Gail Wainman and her husband Glenn joined Friendship Force Victoria and Vancouver Island in Victoria, British Columbia, Canada about four years ago shortly after the club was first formed. Gail nows serves as president of the club. A Global Journey to Myanmar in 2016 was their first experience with FFI and they were hooked. They have also hosted ambassadors from England, Mexico, Australia, Japan, and France. In 2017, their club went to Australia and was home-hosted by three clubs and day-hosted by two more as they journeyed across the country. Gail wrote this story about her memorable experiences.
This is a story about koalas and connectedness.
Nine months ago I found myself standing in a nature reserve just outside of Adelaide, Australia in a gum tree forest. Looking up high into the branches searching for koalas, I reflected on how I had arrived here. This was when I realized that being here was all about “connectedness.”
Two years earlier we had been on a Friendship Force trip to Myanmar. This trip was really just an add-on to a 16-day land and riverboat cruise we had signed up for so my husband could photograph the sacred temples of Vietnam and Cambodia. My thought was that it was a long way to fly for just 16 days, so I looked on the Friendship Force International website and found a 13-day guided trip around Myanmar. On our arrival in Yangon, we learned that our travelling group comprised of four Canadians, two Americans, three Russians, six Australians, and our Burmese guide. We all bonded over amazing food, cheap beer, a better understanding of Buddhism and, of course, the camaraderie formed over new bathroom experiences.
We got to know 13-year-old Olly from Adelaide, Australia. Imagine a six-foot-tall, hundred-pound, shy young man traveling with his grandmother and aunt and 13 other adults. He was not a happy camper! The food freaked him out, so he ate mostly plain rice. This was his first time in a developing nation (and mine too). So as a group, we rallied around him, and my husband and I particularly bonded with him. By the end of the trip he had really blossomed (as was his grandmother’s hope) and he even gave a thank you speech at our farewell dinner. Fast forward to nine months ago.
Our local Friendship Force group had planned a four-week Journey to Australia this past fall. My husband and I flew a week before the official Journey began and spent a week in Sydney adjusting to our new surroundings and time zone. Olly’s grandmother Annette took the time to drive into downtown Sydney and spend the day with us showing us how to get around on the Opal bus system and pointing out the highlights of our area. The next day we took the train to Olly’s Aunt Anna’s where Gramma Annette picked us up so we could spent a lovely day with the family.
When our group got to Adelaide, where Olly is from, Olly’s parents insisted on meeting us and entertaining us. The first evening they picked us up and made us dinner in their home. The following morning, they allowed Olly to skip school and they took us out for the day which included wine tasting and oh – koala spotting!
So far that’s three of the 14 people we met on our Myanmar trip. Later, on the Australia trip we met up with fellow Myanmar traveller Jane in the farming community of Murray Bridge. The theme of our week in Murray Bridge was animal husbandry. If there’s anything you’d like to know about sheep farming – just ask me!
Next month we are going to a FFI Western Canadian Regional Conference in Calgary and the other Canadian couple we met on our Myanmar trip live near Calgary and have invited us to stay with them.
Teresa, one of the Americans, was recently in Victoria and she came to our place for dinner and a chinwag. Marie, the other American, recently emailed us and asked us if we would like to join her on a FF trip this coming fall, but, alas we have already signed up for a trip to Kenya.
And while we were being home-hosted in Perth, Australia, we met a couple from Belgium who had joined our group. And they are arriving with their club in Victoria in October to be home hosted by our club!
But wait – there’s more!
When we joined 90 other Friendship Force members from around the world on the “Festival at Sea” transatlantic cruise in May, we were sitting in the dining room and the woman at the table beside us kept staring at me. She then said, “You look familiar – I think I know you!” I asked her where she was from and she said Adelaide. I looked long and hard at her and asked, “Was I at your beach house for lunch in November?” and she said “Yes!”
My big “A-ha!” moment came to me recently when I compared the FFI Myanmar trip to the five-star land and river boat cruise. Two years later, I could not tell you a single name of the other 125 passengers we cruised with, nor have we kept in touch with any of them. Two years after the Myanmar trip, I can still recite the name of each person on the trip and have remained in touch with most of them.
For me, travelling and hosting with Friendship Force, is all about those cherished memories and lasting connections with friends from around the world.
– Gail Wainman, President of Friendship Force Victoria and Vancouver Island in Victoria, British Columbia